7Corbies, I have severe, refractory panic/anxiety disorder. (For those who might be unfamiliar with the term, "refractory" means it's resistant to treatment so that I have break through attacks even though I'm on good meds.) Believe me, I know what you're talking about. As for what you have to say, you don't always have to say something deep and meaningful for it to matter. I mean, you don't have to go "symbol hunting under the bed" as one of my college professors used to say. It's okay to just mention one thing you liked. "I liked so and so's comment on such and such" or "Yeah, my Zevran says stuff like that too." And do come out of the cave, dear, you'll catch your death of cold in there.