Yeah there isn't the choice really about whether or not you go for most people - but there is a choice about whether or not you accept it, like it, think it's not that bad or worth the tradeoff in the long run or can't stand it. People are different and will have a spectrum of different reactions from "Okay I was taken to the tower but it's totally better than where I was" to "omg this totally blows."

People are individuals and will react as such. Some might accept or even welcome going there. Some might really hate and resent it. That's all I'm saying.